The 31-year-old has opened up to fans, posting a cryptic note that read: ‘It doesn’t matter how loyal you are to someone. You can’t change someone’s heart and bad habits unless they want to themselves.’
Fans were quick to jump to the conclusion that she could be talking about Lamar Odom, her estranged husband, who she has been supporting during his recovery after being hospitalised last year.
Her caption was pretty revealing. The Keeping Up With The Kardashians star penned a lengthy post, which began: ‘“Letting go doesn’t mean that you don’t care about someone anymore. It’s just realizing that the only person you really have control over is yourself.” Letting go with love takes great strength. We have to learn to stop taking on peoples problems as if they are our own’ [sic].
She continued, ‘Loving people does not mean we have to carry their burdens and confusions on our back. Sadly, You can only express your opinion on a situation. You can’t want their life more than they do. This is in fact their life to figure out on their own and in their own time.’
This comes days after reports that the reality star was worrying about Lamar’s health, after he’d been spotted out drinking again. Many were quick to make the connection, believing that she was talking about her estranged husband. Others, however, seemed to think she might be referencing her brother, Rob Kardashian.
Khloe also wrote, ‘Stop shattering your own heart by trying to make a relationship (friend, family, partner) work that clearly isn’t meant to work. We have to stop trying to repaint people’s colors…’
She continued, ‘You can’t love someone into loving you. (God I wish it were that easy) You can’t force someone to be loyal, kind, understanding. You can’t force someone to be the person you need them to be. Even if it’s for their own good!! Sometimes the person you want most is the person you’re best without.’
‘You have to understand… some things ARE supposed to happen in your life, but they just are NOT meant to be. Damn… It took me so many years to understand that. Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what’s meant to stay broken.’
‘Don’t put your happiness on hold for someone (family, friend, partner) who isn’t holding on to you. “A Girl once told me… Be careful when trying to fix a broken person. For you may cut yourself on their shattered pieces.”’
One glance at the comments box on Instagram, and you’ll see that she seems to have inspired her fans with her honesty. Well, we can always count on Khlo’ to say what she’s really feeling.
But Khloe doesn’t want fans to read too much into it, taking to Twitter to reassure everyone: ‘Don’t read too deep into things. This is crazy lol everything gets turned into something else. SMH’.
Well, whatever you meant by the post, we hope you’re okay, Khloe.