There’s a hottie you like at work but things aren’t going smoothly. You’re relationship is on the rocks but you want to save it. Whatever the love life issue, we’re here to help – and we’ve got the dating advice you need in your life NOW!
Here are 5 signs that you’re being a jealous maniac and are scaring your crush/other half off. If you don’t want to wave bye bye to that then read this! Of course we have all the hacks and inspiration just for you in your time of need…
1. You’re constantly checking social media
Cyber-stalking is normal. We all do it. But if you’re constantly checking your partner/office crush’ pages then you might want to pause for a second. Do you find yourself scrolling through who he/she follows on Instagram and getting angry when you see all the models and fitness bloggers on there? Yep, we know that angry jealous feeling SO well, but it isn’t helpful to anyone! Take a break and you’ll feel better for it.
2. You want to control who they speak to
The guy you like is chatting to a girl near the water cooler. You blood is boiling. Sound familiar? Well this jealous is so destructive it’s not even funny! Let the person you like/your other half have some freedom, especially in who they talk to, else they’ll just think you’re a right psycho. Not a good look.
3. You lose it when they arrive late
Jealousy doesn’t always stem from the threat of another person coming in the way of the person you like or your relationship, it can also come from the person you like spending their time doing things that aren’t you. Like their job. Take a minute to think about this for a second. They are busy, they have to work. You need to cut them some slack!
4. You go through their phone
Ok this is bad. It’s oh so tempting but wrong! If you’re checking your office crush’ phone or email account or going through your when they are asleep/in the shower then you have gotta stop. Imagine if you got caught! That would be bye bye relationship.
5. You fabricate the truth
Stop will the bullsh*t stories and exaggerations. You’re just going to make the person you like lose interest when they find out that you’ve been fabricating the truth. Be yourself, act normally and if they aren’t interested when you do that – the f*ck them!